As a leader of a platform for single women, it's easy to talk about the bright side of singledom, but it’s extremely difficult to talk about the dark moments. It means admitting that I, at times, experience loneliness, that the thought of dying alone crosses my mind and fills my head with fear, and not being given the opportunity to share my life with someone – even after all of the work I’ve done to develop healthier relationships in my life makes me sad.